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Blindspots
You might neglect your own needs or fail to recognize that others can be responsible for meeting their own needs. Worldview You see the world as a place where love and appreciation are conditional, earned through acts of service and support.
Focus of Attention
Your attention is often on the needs and desires of others, sometimes to the detriment of your own wellbeing. Core Fear You fear being unwanted or unworthy of love for who you are, not just for what you do for others.
Self-Talk
"If I make myself helpful, people will love and need me." This reflects your belief that your worth is tied to your utility to others. Gifts You bring empathy, kindness, and unconditional support, making others feel loved and cared for in your presence. Vices Your desire to please can lead to overextending yourself and harbouring unspoken resentment when your efforts are not reciprocated.